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Fathers' and Children's Equality, Inc.
FACE
FACE's New Phone Number:
888-76 FACE 9
( 888-763-2239 )
Effective 6/23/2010
This new phone number is operational now, but we are still fine-tuning the phone system. When complete, you will be able to reach all key FACE personnel as quickly as possible through this one phone number.
FACE's New Mailing Address:
FACE
P.O. Box 3302
Cherry Hill, NJ 08034
Effective 6/14/2010
Headlines and Announcements:
58th Child Rescued!
July 21, 2010 -- LOOK AT THE TOP OF THIS PAGE. The number of children rescued from one-parent custody increased today from 57 to 58.
Our FACE member's 14 year old daughter left her mother's house a month ago. She called her Dad, who picked her up and took her to his home 40 miles away in the next county. A FACE representative met with her and told her about how other children had changed their own custody. Today she got to tell the judge that she is afraid of her mother who beats the children if they say they want to see their father, and of mom's alcoholic, druggie, incarcerated boy friend, and wants to stay with her father and his new family. The proverbial last straw was on Fathers Day when, instead of letting the children see their father, mom took them to visit her druggie in jail. The judge also ordered (again!) parenting time with the children for both parents. 14 year old is looking forward to helping her 7 year old sister change her custody too. FACE is looking forward, too, to changing our score to 59.
NEW! Donate Your Unwanted Vehicle to FACE
Donate your unwanted car, van, SUV, truck or motorcycle to FACE. We will pick up your vehicle anywhere in New Jersey or in the five boroughs of New York City at no expense to you, and provide you with all documentation required to claim it as a "Non-Cash Charitable Contribution" on your tax return. Just phone the Vehicle Donation Center at 888-395-3955 and we do the rest. Advantages to you: No phone calls to answer, no strangers coming to your home, you can stop paying insurance and registration on a car you don't drive, and you can claim the maximum tax deduction available.
We have all heard of vehicle donations to charities. Many vehicles are donated to charities about which the donors know nothing. By donating your unwanted vehicle to FACE, you will know it benefits an organization that you know and believe in.
Bring Fairness Back To Domestic Violence Laws
In her June 19, 2010 article, "A Good Father's Day Gift," national columnist Phyllis Schlafly writes that the "extravagantly expensive and discriminatory" federal Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) has created a bureaucracy that provides shelters and other services only for women, promotes vague legal definitions of domestic violence -- many having nothing to do with violence, and considers all men to be batterers. "Charging domestic violence," she writes, "practically guarantees that a woman will get custody of the children and sever forever the father's relationship with his children even though the alleged violence had nothing whatever to do with any abuse of the children." VAWA, originally enacted in 1992, comes up for reauthorization later this year. Ms. Schlafly suggests this would be a good time to hold balanced hearings aimed at making VAWA gender-neutral, and to "assure men that family courts will accord them constitutional rights equivalent to those enjoyed by murderers and robbers."
Click here to read the full article, and click here for more information about Phyllis Schlafly and access to other articles by her.
VERIZON VELOCITY FUNDRAISING
A new way to donate to FACE when you order new phone, internet or TV service.
The High Price of Restraining Orders
March 30, 2010 -- We all know that the Family Court/ Divorce/ Domestic Violence business is a multi-billion dollar growth industry (that's BILLION with a "B"), and that all those judges, lawyers, psychs, child support people and all the others who feed at the family court trough don't want anyone to do anything that will effect their bloated paychecks. Now, in an article entitled "The High Price of Restraining Orders," Bruce Watson of America Online's Daily Finance website reports that the cost of only the temporary restraining order portion of the Family Court pie is costing all of us $4 Billion per year! Certainly, when the effects of final restraining orders is added (including permanent criminal record, loss of employment in certain professions, lost employment opportunities, defense of falsely alleged violations, etc.), the total cost of restraining orders is far, far higher. Click here to read the full article.
Also, click here to see Bruce Watson's January 30, 2010 Daily Finance article "A Hidden Crime: Domestic Violence Against Men Is a Growing Problem."
Upcoming Events:
OCTOBER IS
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH
Start planning now.
Canadian Symposium for Parental Alienation Syndrome
Mount Sinai School of Medicine, Stern Auditorium, Annenberg Building, 2nd Floor
1468 Madison Ave., New York, NY 10029
Saturday October 2 and Sunday October 3, 2010
The mission of Canadian Symposium for Parental Alienation Syndrome is to help educate professionals in the identification of Parental Alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome and to help the public find the professionals that have an expertise in this field. Their main goal is to assist children that need intervention and treatment solutions. All of the speakers are experts in Parental Alienation - from the field's of Psychology, Psychiatry and Family Law.
Click here for symposium website: http://cspas.ca/
International Men's Day
Friday, November 19, 2010
The first International Men's Day was observed at the Missouri Center for Men's Studies at the University of Missouri – Kansas City in 1994. The first international observance was in Trinidad and Tobago in 1999. It has been recognized by UNESCO since 2001, and is now observed in 32 countries as a day to:
Promote positive male role models; not just movie stars and sports men but everyday, working class men who are living decent, honest lives. Celebrate men’s positive contributions to society, community, family, marriage, child care, and to the environment. Focus on men’s health and wellbeing; social, emotional, physical and spiritual. Highlight discrimination against men; in areas of social services, social attitudes and expectations, and law. Improve gender relations and promote gender equality. Create a safer, better world; where people can be safe and grow to reach their full potential.See the official global website: www.international-mens-day.com
... and the Australian site: www.internationalmensday.com
Regardless of these lofty objectives, in the United States, where the stereotype of men is embodied by Homer Simpson, International Men's Day is not widely celebrated and has not received official recognition as a holiday.
FACE'S CHALLENGE TO YOU: How should we celebrate International Men's Day in the United States and particularly in New Jersey? What can we do to get International Men's Day officially recognized as a holiday? Click here for some suggestions from Warwick Marsh of Dads4Kids Fatherhood Foundation in Australia: http://vimeo.com/7444098 Email your ideas to info@facenj.org . Please put "International Men's Day" in the subject line. Let us know whether you will be available for the celebration on November 19, 2010.
The events on this page are not sponsored by or supported by FACE. Our only function is to report to our members and other supporters. Participation is the decision of each individual.
This page last updated 7/29/2010.



